8. They are so chill
I have always been a control freak so it really helps to have my boys living in the moment and constantly reminding me of what a crazy perfectionist I used to be. You never really lose the habit but I’ve become more relaxed and breezy over time and I owe it to them. They never make plans or reservations, and there’s always some unexpected element brought into the equation, but after I lost my mind a few times, I’ve made peace with it and I go with the flow now. It can be enjoyable, really!
9. Bear hugs
There’s not much to say, this one sounds so stupid, I just love it.