I simply don’t take gender into account when it comes to meeting people, and I must say it’s one of the things I’m most proud of. Because the way I see it, my guy friends are my brothers from other mothers, they are the siblings I wish I had growing up, and my life would be so much worse without them. They’re family. And yes, there will always be prejudices and you’ll have people questioning your relationship with them, defying it pointless and insincere, but I won’t buy it. After all, if it works for me, why should anyone else have a word on it?